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blsmur

I hate my poker

another 10 games and 2 wins

just everything went wrong
how can someone call a shove with Q6 and make quads 6's

another game i have JJ and shove to be called by AA

and he gets set and so do i

lost so many  hands  i have devastated my bankroll something terrible
lost over half of it in last few days

and my ability rating on SS is dropping

WTF am i doing ?  why is it every time I try to change my game i go broke

i was winning at around 55% i dare say it no where near it now not even game to look at the moment   is it just variance  ?   I know I not doing some stuff right but at least 2 games i loses today must be just variance  which would have given me 4 out 10   not to bad i guess  but its 2 days in a row now  and with this idea that I am not playing my hands right  I am probably a bit lost so I am making different decisions  which might be the factor that is hurting me   as well

ok i have had my bitch
StasKo

variance is a bitch. Im on a 200 games stretch of downswing. And it can go worse! So dont go too mad about it as it may take a while before the cards will fall in your favour. Just focus on decision making and brm and youll get through it
blsmur

yep thanks

i think 30 buyins  is a bit too aggressive might go to about 40  from now on
StasKo

well it depends. If you are a good winner at your stake level and feeling good and comfortable with your game and not afraid of risk taking and moving down in stakes then 30 buyins is ok. I think that even 25 is acceptable. But when it comes to downswings its better to try to tame the beast by tightening up your brm no matter your skill level plus engaging tilt control actions.
Brokerstar

I think just from the other thread you posted it's fair to say that there are huge holes in the thought process of your game.

For one thing hand reading and value betting were pretty much non existant. Good reasoning for betting and bet sizing are also something that needs to be worked on etc.

You've had lots of good replies about what you were doing wrong and how to fix it in the last thread that should keep you busy for a while.

In all honesty your 55% 'win rate' at this point in time was likely you just running really good as opposed to an actual win rate as with those kinds of flaws in logic and betting, I'd say it was just about impossible to be a long term winning player.

It just takes some people longer than others to understand some of the concepts but when you do, things will begin to get smoother.

Broker
Jakester1288

Broker's post is very, very true.

It's time to suck it up and admit you suck at poker. Read this: http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com...oobah-post-you-suck-poker-671391/

This game is hard, but not unbeatable. It just takes a lot of work. Are you ready to put in that work?
blsmur

gee  thanks Jake , but you think everyone suks at poker  

and  dom I know i have leaks  but later in the evening i went on to lose  Aq to 22  i had the AQ

99 to 88 I had the 99

and i bet 3 steets on a total bluff 2/3 pot on flop 50% on turn and shove river  Ace

he has A rag and call the river shove with 1 pair

so it was a bad bluff i was at least repping AK or 2 pair  (why was I bluffing at all ) not sure  but i guess he was one of those call stns or he could see my cards

I think i need some help  so anyone that might like to  sweat me and work with me let me know   thanks

I have dropped back to 40 buy ins which put me at $5 games so mixing it with 3.5 usd and 3.5 eur and 7 usd games
i checked my win rate it still 55% so that is ok but I would like it to be closer to 60%
blsmur

Brokerstar wrote:
I think just from the other thread you posted it's fair to say that there are huge holes in the thought process of your game.

For one thing hand reading and value betting were pretty much non existant. Good reasoning for betting and bet sizing are also something that needs to be worked on etc.

You've had lots of good replies about what you were doing wrong and how to fix it in the last thread that should keep you busy for a while.

In all honesty your 55% 'win rate' at this point in time was likely you just running really good as opposed to an actual win rate as with those kinds of flaws in logic and betting, I'd say it was just about impossible to be a long term winning player.

It just takes some people longer than others to understand some of the concepts but when you do, things will begin to get smoother.

Broker


why havent i got it right from your course
what alternatives do you think might help me ?
Brokerstar

[quote="blsmur:38860"]
Brokerstar wrote:


why havent i got it right from your course
what alternatives do you think might help me ?


Why haven't you got it right? I have no idea.

The course isn't a magic pill that once you buy it you start winning!!

You have to actually study it and remember the material.

For example you have had many winning players explain to you in some different ways why your over betting logic was so, so wrong in the other thread but by the end of all that help you still didn't really seem to understand why. Your logic was that I now think I have turned the best hand so I'll shove to get him to fold. I can't think of anywhere in the world that you learned that strategy from other than making it up yourself and that my man is the problem.

I cant think of any other way to explain value bets vs bluff or why over betting is just so, so wrong (in the spot you chose). Like where in the course was that over bet bluff move type move? No where.

So it's nothing to do with the course but more your ability to take in information.

I can't actually think of any other ways to put it that makes it any simpler as I have worked my ass off to think of the most simple way to lay out the information. If you can think of anything that has actually helped you remember information in the past then please do share it with me and I'll try and see if there really is any other way to present the information.

You know yourself better than I do so think back to something that you have studied and done well at and try to think what made the information stick for you and then I feel that the info and help you're getting here will be more useful to you and you'll start making some money.

Good luck.

Broker
Brokerstar

blsmur wrote:

and  dom I know i have leaks  but later in the evening i went on to lose  Aq to 22  i had the AQ

99 to 88 I had the 99


What am I meant to do about that?

Suck outs happen, losing flips happens so there is no use crying about them.

What you have to do is focus on the leaks that you do have some control over not the hands that play themselves.
blsmur

Brokerstar wrote:
blsmur wrote:

and  dom I know i have leaks  but later in the evening i went on to lose  Aq to 22  i had the AQ

99 to 88 I had the 99


What am I meant to do about that?

Suck outs happen, losing flips happens so there is no use crying about them.

What you have to do is focus on the leaks that you do have some control over not the hands that play themselves.


i was just pointing out it is not all bad play  

look its not your fault  I have this dumbness  
i have  obviously some brain or would be able to design electronics  .

So given that  , then i must have picked  up some bad stuff along the way , when i did the course with you  you said then i have flawed logic then , this is nearly a year ago now .

ok well i dont seem to be able to recognize that   flaw  when I am playing , along with some  bad Teaching from a guy here in OZ  last year It made me very Aggressive  and i still revert back to it sometimes  and it is a problem for me but "I am  working on it .  

I did all my learning from books for the first 4 years  and never discussed a hand with anyone other than my unwilling  to listen wife .
So perhaps my growing as a player is stunted by this and even now the most i get to talk to people about poker is on here  I dont have any regular friends that play and I am out in the country so it not easy  to get to the casino and has been nearly year since i last went.

this is frustrating for me  and i do so want to be good at it ,very good at it .not just 55%

thanks for reading
ps it is my wedding aniversary today  1 year of marriage and it is our 24th year together
So taking wife and Sam out for the day , well may be not as it pisses down rain and thunderstorms  . perhaps I will take em out for lunch  
cheers
Ron
chesslw

Meh... There is "aggressive", and then there is overbet jam when you hit top pair.

Let me try a comparison, if you are dealt AA preflop, would you open shove it?

Actually open shoving preflop with AA say 100bb deep is even MUCH better as a strategy than minraising/limping with AA and open shoving any flop (but that's not the point). Do you see why this is?

Also do you see the similarities between openshoving any flop with AA to overbet shoving any board when you hit top pair?

There is a very important point, that in any symmetrical game (like hu poker), you only gain when your opponent makes mistakes (and obvious you don't make them either). If you overbet it makes your opponent's decision with his hands much easier. Let me illustrate this in a different example.

Suppose you are playing cricket, and the opposing team is bowling. Wouldn't you rather be facing no balls all the time? Or if not, what about straight down the line, same length each time? Now whenever you overbet shove some board, it is kind of like bowling a no ball. Effectively "all your opponent needs to do" is to pick some hand he thinks is good enough to call your all in- i.e. you make his life very easy.

Personally I just love playing against maniacs and tight passives- mainly because I can be almost certain that I've played the "perfect" mathematical game afterwards. At the end of the day, that's all that matters. If you don't even allow your opponents to make mistakes by making their decisions easier, then how can you have an edge???

I should end that when it's easy for your opponent to make decisions, then you have definitely made a mistake.
two2go

chesslw wrote:

I should end that when it's easy for your opponent to make decisions, then you have definitely made a mistake.


Disagree. Sure sometimes the best play will put your opponent in a tough spot, but most of the time we can make it easy for him to make the wrong decision by exploiting bad tendencies. I mean most of the time we have something we want villain to do with his range and we play in the way he's most likely to do what we want (we make it as "easy" as possible for him). Maybe your post is about game theory or something and I'm misunderstanding you though.
two2go

blsmur wrote:

I did all my learning from books for the first 4 years  and never discussed a hand with anyone other than my unwilling  to listen wife .


I don't know why but I can't stop smiling at this sentence. Congrats on the anniversary, maybe if you buy her something nice she will listen.
chesslw

two2go wrote:
chesslw wrote:

I should end that when it's easy for your opponent to make decisions, then you have definitely made a mistake.


Disagree. Sure sometimes the best play will put your opponent in a tough spot, but most of the time we can make it easy for him to make the wrong decision by exploiting bad tendencies. I mean most of the time we have something we want villain to do with his range and we play in the way he's most likely to do what we want (we make it as "easy" as possible for him). Maybe your post is about game theory or something and I'm misunderstanding you though.


Yeah lol- I'm talking about optimal play- if your opponent is always doing something wrong, like calling preflop shove with atc, then he is just doing that wrong- you can't really say if it's easy or hard for him to do that, or at least saying that doesn't mean anything imo.

If you give your opponent a decision (call/fold/raise), and one decision obviously has the highest EV, then of course you make it easy for your opponent to play effectively- which is not what you want to do. In blsmur's case he actually even removed one of his opponent's options(!) from the list since we decided to overbet jam. Any idiot is going to play perfectly against you with their whole range of hands when you do that (unless they are really hopeless).
Jakester1288

blsmur wrote:
gee  thanks Jake , but you think everyone suks at poker  


Because they do!
U Cook Socks

In my opinion, you just need to start listening, and stop talking nonsense. Sorry to be harsh, but it has become quite boring to be honest. People go out of their way to help you, and you always seem to have an answer for everything.

No one ever said you were dumb by the way, only you said that.

I wish you well, and hope you succeed.
blsmur

Golly

i just try to play this weak limpy style  and i end up in shit

when i raise  3 x pre and cbet every flop ( well 90% of flops) I do ok
when i try to play with a pair or draw with an opponent that just will call to  river and then shove I  feel i have let him get his 2 pair or whatever by not being aggressive enough

when i win the most it is by play  strong on flop and strong on turn
and sometime i all in bluff river too , but against fish river bluffs rarely work , so I pick my places

I have been trying to play this slower type of game and just ck or call with a hand or bet small to keep my opponent in and i  lose on river or I am forced to fold  because i havent hit I have bet half pot on river and they shove over me. or they just call with 22

now i did win some hands playing like this  , but i never seem to know if they have something or not it is just a guessing game for me

When i bet preflop and bet flop if I am 3 bet on flop i can get away if not i will bet turn too if i have a good draw or a pair and a draw  an depending on my opponent  and any reads  I may have  i bet or ck river  . this works for me but as everyone keeps telling me I am not doing right  and by the 10 to 15 games of straight losses i can get  I think there is something in what is being said  , But I am out in the wilderness when i try this type of play .

will someone sweat me or let me watch them and explain .discuss with me what they doing so i might get a handle on this
I am sure once i catch on  then i will have a graph like the ones on the advertising  for the courses on this website
U Cook Socks

I don't know exactly how to put this, so you understand.

I think you need to think more about why you are doing a certain action, rather than the actual action, and definitely more than the outcome.

The hand Broker mentioned, where you shoved all in on the turn, with top pair. Do you understand why that is bad? If you go away and read the posts that were made, and understand why it is so bad, then you can go about coming up with a better play.

If you do that, then you have learned something, and you will be a better player than before you did it. I'm not trying to be rude to you, but seriously , you write a lot of text, that actually means nothing, I rarely see you ask a question, just a lot of reasons why you did something.
blsmur

chesslw wrote:
Meh... There is "aggressive", and then there is overbet jam when you hit top pair.

Let me try a comparison, if you are dealt AA preflop, would you open shove it?

SOMETIMES

Actually open shoving preflop with AA say 100bb deep is even MUCH better as a strategy than minraising/limping with AA and open shoving any flop (but that's not the point). Do you see why this is?

IF OPEN SHOVE  WORSE HANDS CANT CALL  LOGICALLY  

Also do you see the similarities between openshoving any flop with AA to overbet shoving any board when you hit top pair?

WHEN WE HAVE AA AND SHOVE FLOP  OUR OPPONENT HAS HAD A CHANCE TO CATCH UP  BUT MOST OF THE TIME THEY WONT HAVE ANYTHING  IE  THEY 8 TO 1 TO MAKE A SET AND THEY 20 TO TO MAKE 2 PAIR   SO AA IS STILL FAVOURITE

There is a very important point, that in any symmetrical game (like hu poker), you only gain when your opponent makes mistakes (and obvious you don't make them either). If you overbet it makes your opponent's decision with his hands much easier. Let me illustrate this in a different example.

Suppose you are playing cricket, and the opposing team is bowling. Wouldn't you rather be facing no balls all the time? Or if not, what about straight down the line, same length each time? Now whenever you overbet shove some board, it is kind of like bowling a no ball. Effectively "all your opponent needs to do" is to pick some hand he thinks is good enough to call your all in- i.e. you make his life very easy.


OK I  GET THIS ANALOGY


Personally I just love playing against maniacs and tight passives- mainly because I can be almost certain that I've played the "perfect" mathematical game afterwards. At the end of the day, that's all that matters. If you don't even allow your opponents to make mistakes by making their decisions easier, then how can you have an edge???
i THOUGHT  WHEN I AM PLAYING MY NORMAL GAME  I WAS MAKING GOOD DECISIONS  AND  WHEN THEY CALL WITH BAD HANDS AND GET LUCKY  AND THEY DO THEY ARE MAKING A MISTAKE  SOMETIMES I REALIZE THEY HAVE ME BEAT AND I CAN GET AWAY

I should end that when it's easy for your opponent to make decisions, then you have definitely made a mistake.


WELL IT APPEARS  AM MAKING  SOME MISTAKES  , BUT I MAKE WAY MORE WHEN  I TRY TO PLAY SLOWER  ,SO i AM IN A BIT OF A PICKLE

I realize  that I have a problem in one small part of my game  because everyone  says 'I have  . ok  then i am trying to work out how to fix it , in the hand  wher ei shoved  with  top pair and OESD  against his range  I am favourite

I think it was unfortunate that he has A9  and feels he cant fold  tptk

but what should i have done  ck fold ????? when he shove over me or ck call any non all in  on the river   , I thought most  players would be making a mistake to call that shove  and so i was hoping for a fold or if called to improve sometime if i was not already in front

Now Broker says that is flawed thinking . well fine  so what is the the correct think ? ck call  or ck fold  

I guess this has been the same problem  for me ever since i did the course  I also signed for the William hill course  and played some 350 games but end up down $30 from a $35 buy in  

SO to me i does not matter how i got to this type of play  I just want to fix it and ?I dont think  reading more and more is doing anything to help  and typing in here  just pisses everyone off , I think you the points you  make a good  thanks for your time .
regards
Ron
kierkegaard1

ron the right answer is irrelevent. it's how you arrive at the right answer. this is what will help you in your poker endeavours.

blinds 20/40. even stacks. The only read you have is that he calls a lot of flop bets, but plays very strong hands fast and raises.

you minraise to 80 w/89hh
he calls

flop comes 7J4ddx. (pot = 160) eff. stacks 1420.

he checks, you bet 80, he calls.

turn Tc (pot 320) eff stacks 1340

he checks.

what is the best play on this turn, and on a) a blank river, b) a 8c river, c) 2d river

think about what hands you expect opponent to have by this turn (write down all the hands you think he can have) then think about what the best bet sizing is on the turn in this hand
blsmur

kierkegaard1 wrote:
ron the right answer is irrelevent. it's how you arrive at the right answer. this is what will help you in your poker endeavours.

blinds 20/40. even stacks. The only read you have is that he calls a lot of flop bets, but plays very strong hands fast and raises.

you minraise to 80 w/89hh
he calls

flop comes 7J4ddx. (pot = 160) eff. stacks 1420.

he checks, you bet 80, he calls.

turn Tc (pot 320) eff stacks 1340

he checks.

what is the best play on this turn, and on a) a blank river, b) a 8c river, c) 2d river

think about what hands you expect opponent to have by this turn (write down all the hands you think he can have) then think about what the best bet sizing is on the turn in this hand


ok at 20/40 i am normally min raising my btn  with about 80% of hands  

so on the flop i have a gut shot  and the board has 2  card to a flush so I would  bet abput 75 % to 90% depending on player type,  as he call so much and I only have a gutter then 50 % is possible for me and quite likely
if he calls the cbet   then we turn a straight  not the nuts but pretty good
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my view of his potential hands are some part of a draw given that he usually bets  when he has a hand on the turn   I am hoping he has a T and I bet  pot  
and I am shoving the river with pot again

now to answer you i f I was not betting pot and shoving river  then i might bet small say 120  and  hope he shoves and i call
but say bet small 120 and he just flats  
i am sure then he has 2 diamonds  or perhaps Q9  one of which is a diamond   now I must admit i dont normally give them the chance to catch the river but if i did then the 8 gives me second best straight if he was to chk again i would bet half pot   and most likely call any river bet  from him

if it were a diamond on the river i might bet half pot and fold  to an all in  
if the river were blank ie didnt complete his  draws i am betting 1/3 pot hoping he will call or shove over me

I hope i havent left anything out   i have tried to explain what I am normally doing as well as answer your questions  
thanks  you made me think of stuff a bit differently to what i normally think of .
Ron
wolfzep

blsmur wrote:

then we turn a straight  not the nuts but pretty good


im pretty sure you have the nuts on the turn here....
The Angler

I'm confused, are you betting pot and shoving river or not?

If you're not betting pot and shoving river why not?
BetMagicMoney

well i don't think you have the right end of the stick yet, but your not holding the wrong end any more! i'll let kierk point out some of flawed logic as i think he's giving you some 1 to 1

P.S thanks for taking the time kierk <3
kierkegaard1

i forgot to say the amount he's calling oop. for argument sake we'll say around 60-70% and not 3betting.

blsmur wrote:

my view of his potential hands are some part of a draw given that he usually bets  when he has a hand on the turn   I am hoping he has a T and I bet  pot  
and I am shoving the river with pot again


You shouldn't be 'hoping' for anything. we want to play our hand best based on the most likely range we put our opponent on. I havent got pokerstove handy, but hands that call pre and call the flop i'd guess would be in the region of 22-TT/A4/K4s/Q4s/67/78/79/T7/J8/J9/9T/JT/JQ/A2+(not paired)/56/68/KQ/KJ/KT/QT/Q9 + any 2 diamonds.

in terms of card combinations, he has 184 value hands, and 225 combos of no pairs/straight draws (might be a little off - havent done card combo's in ages, but should be good ball park figure for the excercise) these 225 combos dont include flush draws, which there'd be a tonne of.
Anyway, the point im making is that he has more no pair hands in his range compared to hands that are paired, and that even his value is very weak here (we know he plays big hands fast)
so by intending to pot the turn and shove the river, how many of these hands can call us? well, not many.
The notes i provided said he's stationy, so we should be putting out attractive bet sizes to be called down on, not stuff that will scare him away. Calling station doesnt mean "will call anything" or we'd just be shoving AA from the button for 75bbs or w/e. We have no idea about bluff tendencies and we shouldnt assume. we should play straight up until he gives us a reason not to.

blsmur wrote:

now to answer you i f I was not betting pot and shoving river  then i might bet small say 120  and  hope he shoves and i call
but say bet small 120 and he just flats  
i am sure then he has 2 diamonds  or perhaps Q9  one of which is a diamond   now I must admit i dont normally give them the chance to catch the river but if i did then the 8 gives me second best straight if he was to chk again i would bet half pot   and most likely call any river bet  from him


well, you should. If you're a favourite going into the river it doesnt matter whether they hit or not. we make correct decisions on each street. If we're 60% favourite on the turn and for argument sake we KNOW his holding, we bet enough to keep him in the pot, as an underdog. if he misses the river, great!, we got extra chips in the pot when otherwise he would have folded. OR, he hits the river, thats poker. but guess what. he will miss more than he hits, so those extra chips he puts in the pot when he was behind is best for us. better than him folding.

to put it simply. say we bet 100 on the turn as 60% favourite. he calls. if we replayed it 100 times, we should find it'd be something like 60% we win the hand, 40% we lose. so 60 times we win 6000, and 40 times we lose 4000. so OVERALL we've WON 2000 chips regardless of whether or not he hits the river. THIS is what poker is about. it's not about ALWAYS winning. its about making the best decision that wins the most chips in the long run.

blsmur wrote:
if it were a diamond on the river i might bet half pot and fold  to an all in  
if the river were blank ie didnt complete his  draws i am betting 1/3 pot hoping he will call or shove over me Ron


this is kind of the right idea. i think in the scenario i posted it's best to make half pot bets all the way to the river against a weakish range, and just under half pot on the river as we dont want to scare away villain when its hard for him to have much. If we get c/rai on the diamond river we can fold comfortably. If he donkbets a diamond river, it depends on sizing but is kind of irrelevent for this scenario.
BetMagicMoney

kierk is awesome XD
forced

keep making these post kierk.... im gonna subsribe and hire you....

no offence blsmur... Im glad your posting your mind here, wrong and/or right...... cause it's bringing  out all the 'poker minds' and teaching us all.... Yes I mean ALL!

a post like kierk's above is invaluable, enlightening and refreshing for me.

It is very awesome to see the information  broken down into terms 'simply'.... 'like broker does'... from a champion like 'special K'.... ok... sorry kierk... My own nickname for you.

anyways... cheers!



love it!
blsmur

ok i think
the thing that has been high lighted to me is that when i have a big hand i really dont like to fold on the river because a  3rd flush card comes  and if I have 2 pair i will normally shove turn   so if my opponent is drawing  then he should fold I win the pot  

I dont know about betting half pot on turn and giving him correct odds to call
and then folding , I have not been  put to this sort of thinking before , well not that I interpreted like that .  

i suppose somewhere in brokers course its there  but I have not seen it certainly never written it down  and I  am amazed at how simple you made it sound

well I will try to implement that into my thinking , changing your thought process is not easy and I thank you for taking the time  to explain this  to me


I guess this means I am not shoving anywhere as much as I used to from now on  .  

regards Ron
blsmur

forced wrote:
keep making these post kierk.... im gonna subsribe and hire you....

no offence blsmur... Im glad your posting your mind here, wrong and/or right...... cause it's bringing  out all the 'poker minds' and teaching us all.... Yes I mean ALL!

a post like kierk's above is invaluable, enlightening and refreshing for me.

It is very awesome to see the information  broken down into terms 'simply'.... 'like broker does'... from a champion like 'special K'.... ok... sorry kierk... My own nickname for you.

anyways... cheers!



love it!


yes it certainly is  and not the normal  type of posts we get on here

I hope i have got  it right now and can start to implement it
blsmur

wolfzep wrote:
blsmur wrote:

then we turn a straight  not the nuts but pretty good


im pretty sure you have the nuts on the turn here....



if the turn is an 8 then Q9 wins
blsmur

The Angler wrote:
I'm confused, are you betting pot and shoving river or not?

If you're not betting pot and shoving river why not?


i think if you  re read the hand Kierk suggest 3 different turn and rivers

so it is not just a case of shoving  

if you read my response it may be a bit confusing but  I give how i have been playing and then i give the answers he asked for which is not normally how i play

so if you r confused  I am sorry  but I did my best to answer him as accurately as I could

in the future i will not be shoving anywhere  near as often  with a near the  nuts hand I wil be raising and looking for a call and hopefully not a suckout  but if it is a suckout then i will evaluate whether I think my opponent is bluffing or not  and call or fold accordingly
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